For my ladies...

1. -If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.

   -Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

   -Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

   -Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

   -If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends.” A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

   -Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

   -Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

   -The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

   -Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

   -Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

   -If something bothers you, speak up.

   -Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

   -You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.

   -Don’t ever make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

   -Never let a man define who you are.

   -Never borrow someone else’s man.

   -If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.

   -A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.

   -You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street.

   -You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

   -You should never look for someone to complete you, a relationship consists of two whole individuals, look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.

   -Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always knows where you are, and your always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

   -Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.

   -Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

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Henrietta